{"id":195,"date":"2011-02-27T19:17:18","date_gmt":"2011-02-27T19:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stpedagozi.wordpress.com\/?p=195"},"modified":"2011-10-22T20:48:49","modified_gmt":"2011-10-22T18:48:49","slug":"robert-shaw-stephanie-wood-epidemija-popustljivog-odgoja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/?p=195","title":{"rendered":"Robert Shaw, Stephanie Wood: Epidemija popustljivog odgoja"},"content":{"rendered":"<a href=\"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/m_27728.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-196\" style=\"border: 0 none;\" title=\"Epidemija\" src=\"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/m_27728.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"126\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">\u02dc<\/span><\/p>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Ima li ne\u0161to novo \u0161to nam u 21. stolje\u0107u nudi knjiga koja se bavi odgojem?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sude\u0107i prema naslovu brzo bi se moglo zaklju\u010diti da nudi ve\u0107 poznatu pri\u010du o potrebi postavljanja granica ili mo\u017eda lekciju roditeljima koji su odgojem propustili dati djeci ono \u0161to im je stvarno potrebno za \u017eivot.<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">No, bilo bi to previ\u0161e jednostavno. Pa, \u0161to nam onda nudi? \u010cime je privukla moju pozornost, osim provokativnom naslovom? Za\u0161to\u00a0 je preporu\u010dam?<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><!--more-->Otprilike zato \u0161to:\r\n1. Temeljitom opservacijom stru\u010dnjaka s dubokim moralnim osje\u0107ajem, <strong>nudi dijagnozu bolnih to\u010daka suvremenog svijeta <\/strong>(istina &#8211; ameri\u010dkog, ali za\u0161to me opisi previ\u0161e podsje\u0107aju\u00a0 na ovaj na\u0161?) u kojem djeca trebaju odrastati i s kojim se ozbiljno moramo suo\u010diti ako \u017eelimo odgajati.<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">2. Nedvosmislenom odlu\u010dno\u0161\u0107u poziva roditelje na bu\u0111enje i preuzimanje odgovornosti za odgoj djece jer nije vi\u0161e rije\u010d o tome <strong>\u0161to bi trebalo, <\/strong>nego <strong>\u0161to se mora<\/strong> u\u010diniti.<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">3. <strong>S empatijom i razumijevanjem za roditelje <\/strong>koji imaju te\u017eak zadatak odgoja u dru\u0161tvu koje im ne poma\u017ee, <strong>prati put roditeljstva<\/strong> kroz mnoge izazove odrastanja na koje moraju odgovoriti. U razumljivim i autenti\u010dnim pri\u010dama, roditelji se lako mogu prepoznati u situacijama: uspostavljanja pravila hranjenja i spavanja, tjeskobe separacije, iskupljivanja za propu\u0161teno vrijeme, kontrole daljinskog upravlja\u010da, pritiska \u0161kolskih postignu\u0107a i jo\u0161 mnogo drugih.<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">4. <strong>Sna\u017ei roditelje vra\u0107aju\u0107i ih vjeri u uro\u0111ene osje\u0107aje<\/strong>, <strong>zdravorazumsko odlu\u010divanje<\/strong> i tra\u017eenje odgovora svim njihovim dvojbama, tu, na dohvat ruke, poru\u010duju\u0107i: &#8220;Pored sebe imate stru\u010dnjaka za roditeljstvo koji vam svaki dan pokazuje u\u010dinke onoga \u0161to \u010dinite: vlastito dijete. \u010cim primijetite da s njim ne\u0161to nije u redu, odmah vam mora biti jasno da ni va\u0161e roditeljske metode nisu dobre.&#8221;(str.54.)<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u02dc &nbsp; Ima li ne\u0161to novo \u0161to nam u 21. stolje\u0107u nudi knjiga koja se bavi odgojem? Sude\u0107i prema naslovu brzo bi se moglo zaklju\u010diti da nudi ve\u0107 poznatu pri\u010du o potrebi postavljanja granica ili mo\u017eda lekciju roditeljima koji &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/?p=195\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[19],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=195"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1816,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195\/revisions\/1816"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.st-pedagozi.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}